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Then shes already awake

2:07 AM

I guess tHis applies to me as well, but, make the association for her to wake up when you do certain tHings

2:07 AM

It wont matter whether its on purpose or not

2:08 AM

For example, sometimes when i run, kylah wakes up to run beside me ~~and tease me abt being a big baby~~

Well, for now she wakes up by herself when I'm about to do anything stupid

2:11 AM

And she calls me out on it and scolds me haha

Sometimes they wake up when im stressed

2:11 AM

As some sort of stress relief mechanslm

2:11 AM

Very effective, by the way

I haven't been feeling a lot of negative feelings this last nine days

Some members of our group have gotten us into new hobbies because they want to try something and so we put time into it and eventually a few more people start really enjoying the hobby. This happened with crochet and dancing

I need to start drinking more tea hehe, I have a lot of types but I drink way more coffee

At what point in a relationship should you talk about your tulpas

I made us some tea today, and it tasted much better than usual.

i in particular am in need of being fleshed out

2:45 AM

i was made in jan like nelly, we became tulpas at the same time, but i was essentially hardly talked to

berockly (TTG)

@Juesto what do you like doing?

computer stuff, im not sure what else. i dont think kelly is onto computer stuff like me

12:49 PM

oh, some music here and there

Maybe they like music

What kinda computer stuff

12:51 PM

Ah.

try doing random things you usually dont while thinking about her, with the intention of fixing whatever is between you two

nerd things, like configuring something or working on something programming related, idk

If you feel like you cant communicate with her That is a hinderence to you

12:52 PM

The way you believe things to be in your mind are roughly how it will be

Hm

12:57 PM

Doing a bit of everything's alright advice

hmmmm

1:07 PM

i feel a little at loss

nobody here can fix it for you though

1:10 PM

look in, feel what you feel, why do you feel it, how to deal with the why

im not here to ask that?

1:11 PM

i can be given advice on fixing it through

Juesto

i can be given advice on fixing it through

well, were you able to communicate before now?

berockly (TTG)

well, were you able to communicate before now?

not really, i mean a bit (edited)

2:21 PM

i used to just call kelly by her name repeatedly and say nothing else/dropping it (edited)

do youfeel as though it is not reaching her, or that she isnt talking back

bit of both, i find her asleep often (edited)

for the first one, if you have the intention of speaking to her, she is recieving it

2:22 PM

for her not talking back, how old is she

a year

well, it took me months to fix my mindset to allow Lynn to grow

2:23 PM

did you ever have a point where she responded, but you thought you were doing it, and not her?

i left it alone for many months

2:24 PM

sometimes? i dont remember (edited)

well, dont fall under that trap if you hear a response you did not explicitly have the intention of creating, assume it is kelly

2:25 PM

if you are unsure, you did not have the explicit intention, making it her

hm

and as i said earlier, assume it is reaching her if you assume your response is reaching her, it will, period, asleep or not

2:26 PM

and also do not worry about her not being so distinct at first

2:27 PM

you will separate more with time

2:27 PM

let me condense this a bit

i understand

2:28 PM

right now i feel blank (edited)

does this work?

2:29 PM

no

2:29 PM

okay, so

should i have her work on possession?

1. talk to her with the intention that she is receiving it, if you do, she will receive it 2. assume any response you did not explicitly create is hers 3. dont worry so much about her being distinct at first, it will happen with time

i see

2:31 PM

oh yeah the new discord markdown features are still in testing and on very limited servers (edited)

Ah

Juesto

should i have her work on possession?

well, seems like you should work on vocality for now

hmm

@Juesto can you visualize and/or touch?

i assume they can touch things

FlareonOFun

@Juesto can you visualize and/or touch?

its hard to visualize but i sort of can, not sure about touch

wdym by touch?

Are you able to nudge her or put your hand on her with or without visualizing?

im scared

FlareonOFun

Are you able to nudge her or put your hand on her with or without visualizing?

im scared of doing so

3:17 PM

i feel like my equilibrium is messed up

Not much I can help with anxiety, just know that tulpa usually understand about their hosts

wdym

3:27 PM

i told myself its safe to touch her and it feels like coming from her

3:27 PM

im confused

idk sounds like her

i feel im pretending to be her

the worst you can do is accidentally talk to yourself, what probably happens is you talk to her

3:30 PM

you're not

you sure about that?

yes

Juesto

i feel im pretending to be her

do you remember what i said earlier?

3:30 PM

if you are unsure it is her

i "feel" like im pretending to be tup whenever she fronts, but i know its just my old assumptions of 1 mind 1 body

huh

and i try to ignore it

if you are not explicitly having the intention to respond to yourself

3:31 PM

it is her

its hard to process but okay

and anyways, your brain isnt "tricking you"into thinking shes speaking

3:32 PM

thats the Exact same as if she was speaking anyways

3:32 PM

since the experiences are the same, you should assume the better option

alright

3:35 PM

im smiling for no reason again, guess its her

shes doing a little trolling

lol

am i?

a little bamboozling

i think i just like to smile